Desire-Based Coaching

Working With Jennie

Jennie in Bergen by Jennie Adams
Jennie in Bergen by Jennie Adams

I offer individual coaching, couple´s coaching, coaching circles, and classes focused around creating your best life, sex, and relationships. I draw upon my coaching training with One Taste and Nicole Daedone, my teacher’s training with The Art of Feminine Presence, my degrees in management and accounting along with my work experience in the business world, and my work since 2012 as a Shamanic Practitioner. Sessions can occur in person, over the phone, on Facetime, or online through Skype, Zoom, or Google Hangout.

Specific to the Individual or Couple

I do not believe that there is a one size fits all approach for every individual or couple and, as such, I work to learn and cultivate the uniqueness of each individual and relationship. My varying background and experiences adds a unique twist to this.

Perhaps you desire to spend your life as a lone wolf having short deeply connected encounters and long lasting friendships. On the other extreme, perhaps you desire to create a space for one individual to share your entire life with including the ups and the downs with just a few close friends. I have worked with couples ranging from monogamous to those with varying styles of open relationships, including polyamory. The sky is the limit when it comes to how you desire to set up the container within your relationships!

Working with Robin

Robin on Netherlands Train by Jennie Adams
Robin on Netherlands Train by Jennie Adams

If you’re reading this, it’s because you want something.

Maybe the usual: a better job, more money, more sex, better sex.  Maybe you want to know why you’re relationship’s failing, or why you can never get into a relationship to begin with.  Maybe you’re upset by all the injustice in the world and feel powerless to do anything.  Or maybe you’re confused because you have nothing really to complain about in your life, but still you’re not happy.

How can I help?  What problem am I here to solve?

Well, I don’t solve problems.  I won’t teach you a pick-up artist’s tricks or new sexual techniques, or help you write your CV.

But perhaps I can show you that there are other ways of looking at the world than as a series of things called problems that have things called solutions.

The model we are given is that there is a way to do things.  This is what a successful life looks like – house, car, family – and if you don’t like it, there’s something wrong with you.  You work to get money, which you then choose how to spend from the choices in the store, and if that doesn’t make you happy, then you.  This is how sex is done, and if you don’t like it, then your body is broken.

Maybe you believed that the problem is with you.  Maybe you believe the problem is with the System, and you will be unhappy until we have our socialist or liberatarian utopia.  Maybe, like me, you could see that the way things are done is bad, but you could not find a right thing to replace it with.

I hope to show people by example that there is another way to live.  Slow down and listen to your body and your emotions, and approve of what they do – not what they should do.  Place your attention on what is there – not what is not there.  Vulnerability and sensitivity are strengths: say the things that show people what you are really feeling, not what you think they want you to say.  Live your life goallessly: moment by moment, do the things that create the most connection between you and the other person, not the thing that you think will get you the outcome you want.

There is the theory, and I could talk theory with you for hours.  But this work cannot be done in the head.  I will work with you to develop a series of practices and exercises that will cement these changes into your life, no matter how much you kick and scream (and however much you think you want to change, you *will* kick and scream when the time comes).  I will remind you of what you promised to yourself.

I use ideas and practices from many sources, from ancient Greek philosophy to Orgasmic Meditation.  Maybe you will see the results talked about on our Testimonials page – a virgin nerd now fighting women off with a stick, .  Or maybe nothing will change.  I make no promises to you now – because, if I have done my job, then you will know that success is not judged by outcomes.  But if you feel that something I have said has already started some shifts within your mind or your soul, you might want to contact us.


With every client interested in coaching, whether individual or couples, the first step begins with a one hour complementary session called an “Exploratory” with either Jennie, Robin, or both of us – depending on your preference. The purpose is to look at what it would look like in your life if you had it exactly how you wanted it in every area along with what is blocking you from having it. With that information, the discussion shifts to how supporting you as a coach in creating what it is you want to create, give examples of tools that feel beneficial, and suggesting range of how long a period spent working together to navigate you to where you want to be would last. At the end of the session you can decide whether or not this will work for you.

This Exploratory is a wonderful chance for us to get to know one another and see if we are a good match to work together along with a way for you to see how coaching works so that you can make the best decision for you.

Pricing is based on session packages.

Click here to to inquire about an Exploratory session or learn as for further details.